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Lymphatic Drainage: What It Is And Why I’m Hooked On Doing It At Home

I’ve always taken care of myself (eaten well, stayed active), and had a healthy relationship with my body. That said, I wasn’t totally psyched about it post-baby. And that is common, real, and allowed. Sure, from an outsider’s perspective, it’d seem as though I lost the majority of my baby weight rather swiftly—and I did—but there was also this annoying all-over puffiness that was taking up residence on my upper arms, belly, and upper legs that I just couldn’t seem to iron out over time. 

So, I did what any person would do, and Googled what might be going on. As with all great internet searches, mine ended with a thousand possibilities and mindless scrolling through each one. I toggled over to Instagram's Explore Page and, there, staring back at me, was a woman wielding a giant wooden body brush. I was intrigued. The goddess I’m referring to is none other than Melissa Wood-Tepperberg aka Melissa Wood Health. My friend actually mentioned her to me previously—the universe is funny that way, right?—so I clicked on the video (below). Afterwards, I was beside myself. She is so fit, so powerful, and so toned—I had to get into whatever she was doing. And buy whatever that bizarre tool was, too. Turns out, she was doing an at-home lymphatic drainage tutorial.

My goal was to de-puff my bod a bit—and since Melissa’s body looks anything but puffy, I wanted to try her recommendation. Plus, I’d written about lymphatic drainage before—and have even got a lymphatic drainage massage from the famous massage therapist Flavia Lanini (she works on the likes of Kendall Jenner and Shay Mitchell), who has magic, de-puffing hands—so I know its benefits. In case you aren’t familiar, here’s what I’m referring to: 

What Is Lymphatic Drainage?

“Unlike the heart, the lymphatic system does not have a pump to push it around the body, so the lymph [a clear fluid that moves through your body's arteries and tissues to clean them, before draining them through the lymphatic system] relies primarily on our body's muscle action and movement to maintain its fluid movement,” Lanini explains. “Lymphatic drainage is a manual massage technique that works on the lymphatic system, stimulating it to work quickly by moving the lymph to the lymph nodes [throughout your body, but largely located in your neck, armpits, and groin]. Its main function is to accelerate the process of removing the accumulated liquid between the cells and their catabolic [aka breakdown of] residues, directing them to the capillary vessels and, through specific movements, [onward] so that they are eliminated,” she says.

I never really included the practice into my beauty routine, but now seemed like the right time.

Benefits of Lymphatic Drainage 

According to Lanini and Wood, the benefits of lymphatic drainage are extensive, mainly in the transport and removal of stagnant fluids, but it also:

  • Stimulates blood circulation and tissue regeneration
  • Directs and increases lymphatic flow, promoting faster removal of excess interstitial fluid
  • Reduces swelling and water retention
  • Improves the immune system due to the important elimination of toxins
  • Minimizes the appearance of cellulite by reducing the amount of fluid that presses up against the cross-hatched fibers beneath your skin
  • Promotes body and mental relaxation
  • Provides an overall lightness in the body
  • Energizes the body 
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How to Prepare for Lymphatic Drainage

If you’re looking to have lymphatic drainage done to you, Lanini suggests searching for a licensed professional with references and experience, much like you would when choosing a physician. Basically, you want someone who knows what they’re doing so you get the best results. If you bruise easily, like me, avoid taking anything that can cause blood thinning, like ibuprofen, one week before your appointment. 

If you’re going the at-home route: Get the tools you need, like an oil or lotion for slip, a dry brush, or a lymphatic drainage tool that can aid you in your DIY experience. Note: You shouldn’t be pressing that hard that you’d actually bruise yourself at home. But, I know some people mark easier than others, so just wanted to throw that out there.

Wood told me exactly how to prep for my at-home lymphatic drainage regimen (more on that below), which she also tells you in her video, which included a body brush (I had one collecting dust in my bathroom) and the cool wooden tool she uses. It's De la Heart's Lymphatic Drainage Body Tool ($29)—which the company graciously gifted to me for this story, full disclosure—with some jojoba oil to help the tool glide over your skin.

What to Expect During a Lymphatic Drainage

If someone is giving you a lymphatic drainage massage, prepare to definitely feel them working on you—it’s not a Swedish massage, it’s definitely deeper. But also, expect to feel lighter when it’s over and to look more contoured. You’ll notice a pinkish tint to your skin that’s directly related to increased blood flow. Oh, and don’t be surprised if you’re sore the following two days from the pressure the therapist will use during the massage. You also might notice more mobility in certain muscles than you didn’t previously have (which, goals). As well as an energized feeling within your body, along with the need to pee more. This happens because your lymph will be moving properly, but also because you’ll need to stay hydrated post-massage (professional or DIY) to maintain the benefits. 

Lymphatic Drainage: At-Home vs. by a Professional 

If you make an appointment with a massage therapist, like Lanini, you can expect a signature treatment that combines lymphatic drainage, contouring (a combination of deeper strokes to release the tissue, increase the metabolism, and promote a chiseled effect), relaxation and myofascial release (when you apply gentle pressure on the myofascial tissue to help with muscle pain and, ultimately, restore motion), Flavia explains. At the start of your appointment, you’ll discuss your goals with your therapist and how much time you have; the client’s necessities typically determine how the therapist maps out each session. But since Flavia’s clients are typically long-term patients, she already knows what happened during the last session (and their history), so she starts from there. That said, starting with the back of the legs, moving up to the back, switching to the front of the legs, then stomach, working your way up to the neck, and ending up at the face is a good sequence, in her opinion. 

At home, just like with the lymphatic massage Wood did on herself (and what you’ll see me do on myself below), you’ll notice similar results to having a professional work on you, but, in my opinion, there is less of an immediate contoured effect. This is mainly because you won’t be able to work as deep on yourself as someone else would. The biggest difference: As Wood mentioned in her video, while at-home lymphatic drainage is easy and accessible, it’s always more fun to have someone massage you because you’re not doing any of the work!

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Side Effects

Since you’re promoting proper lymph movement—something your body is meant to do naturally—there is little risk with lymphatic drainage. However, you want to make sure you’re doing it properly. Always moving the lymph toward your heart with upward motions, and then downward motions on your belly toward your groin. That said, if you’re pregnant or have underlying health conditions, definitely talk to your doctor before making an appointment with a professional or using an at-home method. 

What It’s Like to Try an At-Home Lymphatic Drainage Method

Okay, back to my at-home experience! The original plan was to have Melissa come to my apartment and show me the way, much like I was her very cute toddler Elanor. Thankfully, Wood’s tutorial was very thorough, so the new plan was to follow her technique for a month, twice a week.

  • Dry-brushing pre-shower, which triggers the lymph to start draining. Wood uses Yerba Prima's Tampico Skin Brush
  • De La Heart's Lymphatic Drainage Body Tool post-shower to continue stimulating circulation and moving the lymph.

Mind you, I know these tools aren’t magic wands, so please note I have continued eating a balanced diet and working out several times a week (including Wood's insanely hard exercises on her site and another workout I often stream). Because of my lifestyle, Wood assured me if I do this routine consistently, I should start noticing results in a week or so. (Note: She also mentioned not drinking alcohol helps reduce inflammation in the body, which can contribute to puffiness, so I could cut that out if I wanted to take it to the next level. I decided I wasn’t going to go that route, but you can if that’s your vibe.)

Melissa Wood's Health Technique:

As for MWH’S method: “You want to start at your ankle, working up the legs in a gentle circular motion,” she explains. “Think [about moving] up the limbs, [so] up the arms from the wrist to the armpit, and then down the torso to eliminate extra fluid and toxins in the body.

You will notice an increase in circulation, a decrease in inflammation, a boost of energy, and [possibly] reduced cellulite. [Dry brushing is also known to help digestive issues, stress, and I've personally experienced a tightening effect.” Melissa described dry brushing as a gentle approach; the paddle she recommends, which you use post-shower, takes it up a notch because it “digs in deeper,” she adds. “When I do the paddle, I also notice I have to pee more, as it’s moving the fluid out as you're moving toxins out of the body.” P.S. I’ve noticed this, too!

The At-Home Tools You’ll Need

The product I first took for a test drive was my dry brush—I had the Goop Beauty G.Tox Ultimate Dry Brush in my possession so that’s what I used. I'm also obsessed with Gilded's Marble Body Brush because it is endlessly chic.

Yerba Prima Tampico Skin Brush $15
Body Tool
De La Heart Lymphatic Drainage Body Tool $29
gilded body brush
Gilded The Marble Body Brush $88

The Step-By-Step Process:

Step1: Following Wood's guidance, I began using gentle upward strokes and circular motions on my arms (from wrist to shoulder).

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Step 2: Then, I went in on my legs (from ankles to bum), and then downward strokes on my torso (from sternum to just above my pubic bone).

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Step 3: Next, downward strokes on my torso (from sternum to just above my pubic bone). I could immediately see an increase in blood flow (my skin is super sensitive, so I could see a pinky flush rising to the surface), along with the feeling that my body was internally energized. 


Step 4: Post shower, I slathered my skin with oil to create some slip that way the tool glides over your skin versus pulling it. De La Heart sent me their jojoba oil ($13), but I’m also a HUGE fan of the Groto Skin Wizard Nourishing Baby Oil ($32). Yes, I stole this from my daughter, don’t tell her; it smells like a DREAM thanks to the sandalwood nut-, macadamia seed-, and sweet almond- oils it contains—plus, it has a natural fragrance of coconut and honey that is just divine—I could just eat it. I don’t, obviously, but I do love applying it—it’s super calming to me.

Step 5: Finally, using upward motions again, I started gliding the De La Heart Lymphatic Drainage Body Tool over my skin as if I were shaving my legs.


Step 6: Again, the goal is to move the lymph toward your heart, so your body can properly flush out the fluid and toxins.


Step 7: Just remember to use downward strokes on your stomach toward your pubic bone. The first time I did the combo I was hooked, so it was easy for me to continue this regimen for a month—in fact, I’m going to keep doing it three times a week and make it a permanent piece of my routine. I’m obsessed!


The Before + After

before/after lymphatic Drainage
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Final Takeaway

Don’t get me wrong, while I love having someone else give me a massage (as a mama, I wanna chill moment, too, ya know?), this at-home technique is easy, much more affordable, and has not only been very relaxing and invigorating, I’ve definitely seen results that I’m really happy with.

Sure, they may not be as visible to someone else, but I’m not doing it for anyone else—just me. So, with that said, I’m raising a tall glass of water (as I mentioned, it’s important to stay hydrated after you do any form of lymphatic drainage) and cheers to new, at-home routines that can make you feel good about yourself as we all stay home and stay safe. 

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