The fun part of winter is over, the weather is bleak, and our bank accounts are empty—for us, February can feel like a weeks-long hangover. According to Psychology Today, this funk isn't all in our heads: An estimated 10 million Americans are affected by seasonal affective disorder. Add the pressure of sticking to your high-stakes January resolutions, and the fact that we're still recovering from a notoriously rocky year, and it's no wonder this February funk feels contagious. To explore why this time of year feels extra tough—and what we can do about it—we connected with clinical therapist and grief specialist Ginger Poag.
She explained that one major reason for early February depression is that we're simply feeling the inevitable comedown from all the New Year's buzz. Celebratory treats like champagne and dusk-till-dawn parties "all produce feel-good neural transmitters in our brains," the Nashville-based counselor says. When we return to our workday routine, it's only natural for our bodies to need to readjust. Adding to this sense of disappointment is a lapse in our (often draconian) resolutions: "There is a lot of pressure to set New Year's resolutions and the inevitable guilt that comes with failing to meet them."
Now that we better understand the February blues, how can we combat them? Scroll down for Poag's top tips on fighting seasonal depression.
The last thing we want when we're feeling down is another entry on our to-do list. That being said, small actions can return major rewards. To get out of a slump, Poag recommends gentle mood-boosters like journaling and meditation. Journaling especially allows you to check in with yourself, vent, and get creative. With writing prompts and sections for listing what you're grateful for—and what you want to let go of—Desire Map Planner makes planning even the most stressful day feel within your control.
Even a short stroll through your neighborhood will reduce stress and release endorphins. When I want nothing more than to hide under the covers all day, I use this trick: As soon as you get out of bed, put on workout wear. That way, you've already taken the first step in getting outside, and the rest will seem far less daunting. When I want to get moving, I'm a major fan of Sweaty Betty's cute and comfy statement leggings.
Sometimes relaxation can be as simple as a spritz. Aromatherapy has been used for millennia to naturally unwind, restore, and heal. A cornucopia of different natural scents means there's an oil for everything. Lavender, for example, is popular for its ability to melt tension; meanwhile, spicy peppermint kick-starts energy and improves brain functioning. To experience your scent of choice without overpowering your space, try InnoGear's diffuser. With a whisper-quiet motor and softly colored lights, it's basically a tiny spa.
"The lack of sunshine and cold weather during the month of February greatly influences our mood," says Poag. "Increase light in your home by turning on more lights or opening the curtains and letting natural sunlight in." This therapy lamp from NatureBright is Amazon's best-selling light therapy product (and a personal favorite).
Looking for another way to lighten up? Try making space in your home. "Clutter can have a negative effect on moods," notes Poag, who suggests streamlining your possessions to help relieve anxiety. Start somewhere small—your medicine cabinet, for example—to make your task feel manageable, and blast an upbeat playlist while you work.
While holing up until summer is tempting, Poag reminds us that isolating ourselves can compound negative emotions: "Call a friend and go out for lunch, coffee, or just catch up on the phone with them." She recommends social gatherings that won't overexert you, whether it's satisfying your restlessness by going out for the afternoon or curling up with a tried-and-true favorite film with your best friend.
Since many people are feeling low right now, this is a perfect time to remind loved ones that you're here for them. Enlisting a friend for a mood-boosting activity—like a scenic stroll, a tea date, or yoga—will help hold you both accountable.
It's important to have fun and be social, but slipping back into party mode can actually worsen depression. "Limit alcohol consumption," Poag warns. "Drinking may make us feel good for a few hours, but it has a depressant effect on our brain which can contribute to depression." Opt for coffee or dinner, and forgo the bar in favor of some much-deserved beauty sleep. Poag also recommends that sufferers of the blues avoid processed sugar and opt for fresh fruits and veggies for a natural energy boost. For guilt-free stress relief, I add a teaspoon of herbal supplement from Moon Juice to tea or almond milk before bed—the concoction makes for a totally soothing nightcap.